The old cliche goes that the only responsibility for the groom is that he shows up on time. While that certainly is a key part of a successful start to matrimonial bliss, there are a few other ways the groom can relieve some pressure from the bride. While your partner may not be interested in floral arrangements and reception styling, there are some small gestures that can really help, read on for some top tips to being a great groom.
1. Organising His Groomsmen
It’s up to the groom to carefully select the best of the best to be his groomsmen, whether it’s close family or oldest friends he’ll want a group that is both fun and responsible. Not only must he make the final call but he should be accountable for overseeing their suit hire and ensuring they’re well informed about all things wedding including rehearsal dinners, suit hire, and any individual tasks like who’s taking care of the ring. The best man is there to help coordinate, but it’s up to the groom to oversee all things groomsmen.
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2. Practicing & Perfecting His Dance
If you’ve decided to wow your guests with a choreographed dance you’ll want to give yourself at least 6 months to learn your routine. Your groom may not be the extroverted type but if it’s important to you he needs to make it important to him. Your groom should bring a good attitude to dance class and put his best foot forward, so to be speak, practice makes perfect after all.
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3. Writing His Vows
If you’ve decided to write your own vows it’s up to your groom to put in the time to write something original and heartfelt. Your wedding is a once in a lifetime event and a great opportunity to express his feelings for you in front of your nearest and dearest. This isn’t a task to take lightly, so for vows that come from the heart make sure your groom puts in the time to write, perfect and recite.
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4. Looking His Best
It’s second nature for most brides to want to look their best for the big day, with facials booked and hairstyle trials there’s a lot to have to organise without you having to worry about your groom’s grooming too. Have your partner book in a trim at least two weeks before the big day so there’s time for his style to settle, it may not be in his nature to spruce up but we guarantee he won't regret it when the portraits come in.
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5. Making a Toast
He may not be suited for the spotlight but your groom should prepare a toast and expect to respond to toasts throughout the night. Traditionally the groom's toast is last after family members and the best man, it should wrap up the speech section and be used to show gratitude and express love to everyone who came. You can also say a few words if you fancy, but it can be a nice opportunity to sit back, relax and absorb all the love coming your way.
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